리워드 리워드

자유게시판

Let's expel this kind of person from the Indonesian expatriate community.

180.252.***.***
832


A while ago..


in the neighborhood where I live,

there was apparently a husband who would brew coffee in the morning.. pour the brewed coffee into a cup..

carry that cup to the room where his wife was sleeping..

and wake his wife by letting her smell the coffee aroma right under her nose..

and he might still be active(?) somewhere even now..


I've never personally seen that rotten guy's face..

I heard the story from my wife..



I don't quite remember which lady told her that story,

but ever since hearing it..

whenever my wife wakes up in the morning, I have to brew coffee and bring it to her..



Among my wife's friends,

there's apparently someone whose husband comes at her(?) practically every single night..


I thought, guess he's eating well.. and left it at that..


but hearing that a regular office worker, not even a company owner, does that at this age,

I honestly wanted to see that rotten guy's face too..

what does he even look like to do such animal-like things..



Not just my wife,

but her close female friends also seem to secretly envy those stories..


It looks like they're comparing to their own husbands,



In my analysis, that's..

not much different from a single photo taken at a restaurant,

after everything's been set up nicely following ordering a delicious dish..


Taken at the moment it looks most tidy and delicious..

possibly just one still cut, even using a photo-editing app..


Once you actually start eating, it's only a matter of time before it gets messy..



But maybe we..

compare ourselves to happiness that others have constructed

and end up living feeling unhappy because of it..


What's the reason people live..?


Might not be the exact right answer, but at minimum, living to be happy is probably correct..


But why..

do we compare ourselves to others and make ourselves unhappy..?



First, because of muddy-the-waters rotten guys like loach fish,

and second, because of low self-esteem

from believing the happiness others have manufactured, comparing ourselves to it, and sinking into a swamp of unhappiness on our own..



One more thing to add..



Fellow Korean expats in Indonesia!


Let's root out the rotten guys muddying our good customs

so that no such nonsense stories can stir up public sentiment again..

and let's raise our self-esteem

so we don't drive ourselves into unhappiness by comparing ourselves to others..


목록
글쓰기

  • (114.122.***.***)

    [KR] ㅎㅎㅎㅎ SNS의 병폐 같은거로 느껴집니다. 어디서 읽었는데... SNS에서 파악되는 한국의 GDP는 실제의 GDP 보다 약 3배 이상 높다고요... 좋은 모습만 순간적으로 보이고... 그걸 보는 사람은 항상 저렇게 사는구나... 하면서 믿는거죠. 아니... 커피을 내려서 그 향으로 사람을 깨운다고요? 그게 가능해요? 본인이 드시면서 그 향만 맡고 계신게 현실이 아닐런지... 😂 밤마다 덤빈다라... 좋은거 드시고... 밤마다 UFC를 하시는거겠죠. 😁 마르쿠스 아우렐리우스 왈 曰 - "자신의 삶을 다른 사람들과 비교하지 말라. 그들의 삶은 그들의 것, 당신의 삶은 당신의 것이다."

    [EN] Haha! It feels like one of the downsides of social media. I read somewhere that Korea's GDP as it appears on SNS is said to be about 3 times higher than its actual GDP... Only good moments are shown momentarily... and people who see them think, "Oh, so that's how they always live," and they believe it. But wait... you brew coffee and wake people up with the aroma? Is that even possible? I wonder if the reality is just that you're drinking it yourself and only smelling the aroma... 😂 Every night you go for it... enjoying nice things... so you must be doing UFC every night, huh? 😁 Marcus Aurelius said: - "Do not compare your life with others'. Their lives are theirs, your life is yours."

    [ID] ㅎㅎㅎㅎ Ini terasa seperti masalah SNS. Saya pernah baca... GDP Korea yang terlihat di SNS sekitar 3 kali lipat atau lebih tinggi dari GDP sebenarnya... Hanya penampilan baik yang terlihat sesaat... dan orang yang melihatnya percaya bahwa mereka selalu hidup seperti itu. Tidak... menyeduh kopi dan membangunkan orang dengan baunya? Apakah itu mungkin? Sementara mereka meminumnya sendiri dan hanya mencium baunya... mungkinkah itu bukan realitas... 😂 Menyerang setiap malam... minum hal-hal baik... Anda pasti melakukan UFC setiap malam. 😁 Marcus Aurelius berkata - "Jangan bandingkan hidupmu dengan orang lain. Hidup mereka adalah milik mereka, hidupmu adalah milikmu."

    1명

    @LimJakarta님에게 대댓글 쓰기

    댓글 등록
  • (182.3.***.***)

    [KR] 필력이...😂🤣 공감하고 갑니다~ 남과 비교하기 시작하면 결국.. 본인만 불행해지죠..

    [EN] My writing...😂🤣 I relate to that~ When you start comparing yourself to others, you just end up making yourself unhappy.

    [ID] Tulisannya...😂🤣 Saya setuju banget~ Kalau mulai membandingkan diri dengan orang lain, akhirnya.. cuma diri sendiri yang akan tidak bahagia..

    1명

    @귤탱스님에게 대댓글 쓰기

    댓글 등록
  • (182.0.***.***)

    [KR] 비교충 극협

    [EN] Comparison-obsessed and extremely petty

    [ID] Perbandingan Loyalitas Kerja Sama Ekstrem

    2명

    @오즈의맙소사님에게 대댓글 쓰기

    댓글 등록
  • (180.252.***.***)

    [[삭제 또는 블라인드 댓글]]

    @rayd7236님에게 대댓글 쓰기

    댓글 등록
  • (180.252.***.***)

    [KR] 사람마다 장단점이 있으니 밤낮으로 커피와 어텍 시도는 못 하지만 남다른 스킬로 나름 평화와 삶의 균형을 유지하고 삽니다.

    [EN] Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, so I can't stay up all night drinking coffee and trying out new things, but I maintain a certain peace and balance in life with my unique skills.

    [ID] Setiap orang memiliki kelebihan dan kekurangan. Meskipun saya tidak bisa mencoba kopi dan bekerja siang malam, dengan keterampilan yang berbeda, saya tetap mempertahankan kedamaian dan keseimbangan hidup saya.

    2명

    @rayd7236님에게 대댓글 쓰기

    댓글 등록
로그인한 회원만 댓글 등록이 가능합니다.

아이큐 330
정신이상자..
이상주의자..
사회부적응자..
로..
보일때가 많음..

자유게시판

KR | ID | EN
  • IDR
  • KOR
7.79 ▲ 0.01

2026.08.24 KEB 하나은행 고시회차 357회

다가오는 한인 행사일정

  • 등록 된 일정이 없어요!

추천인 목록

닫기

공유하기

닫기