안녕하세요. 최근에 인도네시아에서 정말 믿기지 않는 일을 겪어서, 다른 한국 분들이나 찌까랑에 계신 분들은 저 같은 피해를 보지 않으셨으면 하는 마음에 글을 올립니다.
결혼까지 생각하며 진심을 다했던 상대가 알고 보니 상습적으로 한국 남성들에게 접근해 금전적 이득을 챙기는 사람이었습니다. 제가 직접 겪은 수법과 특징을 공유해 드릴 테니, 혹시 주변에 이런 여성을 만나고 계신 분이 있다면 꼭 다시 한번 생각해보시길 바랍니다.
⚠️ 주의해야 할 여성의 특징
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이용 앱: 틴더(Fr***sca), 범블, 인스타(hua_26_0*) 등 (프로필에 중국 전통복을 입고 있음)
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활동 지역: 주로 찌까랑 AEON Mall이나 Lippo Mall(Lily diamond)에 자주 나타납니다.
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신분: 20대 초반(05.01.26)에 본인을 부* 인더스트리(공장) 회장의 비서 라고 소개합니다.(회사가 본인을 지켜준다는대 왜??)
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외형/스타일: 한국 온라인 쇼핑몰(깜*오리 등)에서 파는 화려한 홀복 스타일을 즐겨 입고, 온라인으로 프로그래밍 수업을 듣는다고 합니다.
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차량/주거: 흰색 도요타 러쉬(번호판 14** 계열)를 타고 다니며, 찌까랑 Westwood Suites 아파트에 거주합니다. (중국인 아버지와 인니인 어머니 가족 관계를 언급하며 동정심을 유발하기도 합니다.)
❗ 조심해야 할 '결혼 빙자' 수법
처음 연락할 때는 돈 이야기를 전혀 안 합니다. 정말 진지하게 결혼하고 싶어 하는 것처럼 연기해서 사람 마음을 완전히 안심시켜요. 하지만 실제로 만나면 조금씩 본색을 드러냅니다.
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초기 지출 유도: 첫 만남부터 어머니 선물이라며 수십만 원어치 장을 보게 하거나, 비싼 옷과 백금 목걸이 등을 은근히 요구합니다.
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천만 원대 예물 요구: 상견례 분위기를 만들고 나면, 결혼 약속의 징표라며 천만 원이 넘는 고가의 반지와 목걸이를 사달라고 강하게 압박합니다.
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황당한 잠적: 예물을 손에 넣으면 갑자기 집수리 페인트값 같은 말도 안 되는 돈을 요구하며 싸움을 겁니다. 그러다 쇼핑몰 같은 곳에서 화장실 간다며 사라진 뒤, "호텔에 짐 맡겨뒀으니 찾아가라"는 메시지 하나 남기고 잠적해 버립니다. 나중에 확인해보면 가장 비싼 예물만 쏙 빼돌린 상태입니다.
현지 한인분들께 들어보니 이미 여러 한국인, 중국인 남성들을 상대로 똑같은 수법을 써온 상습범이라고 하더라고요. 저도 하마터면 천만 원 넘는 돈을 그냥 날릴 뻔했습니다.
"나는 아니겠지" 혹은 "이 사람은 착해 보여서 괜찮겠지"라고 생각하지 마세요. 온라인 대화에서 전혀 돈 요구가 없더라도, 만났을 때 비상식적인 예물이나 금전을 요구한다면 100%입니다. 제 이야기가 누군가에게는 꼭 도움이 되어 제2, 제3의 피해자가 나오지 않았으면 좋겠습니다.
혹시라도 본인이 억울하다면 직접 나와서 해명해보시죠.
저는 2월 6일 약혼식을 했던 사람입니다. 양가 가족앞에서 그쪽 가족전부가 이런 사기 사실을 알면서 도운건지 모르겠지만
가해자는 지금도 다른 피해자를 만나고 있는거 같은데 다른 피해자 안생기도록 찌까랑 부근 한인 분들은 조심하시길 바랍니다.
제가 겪은 이야기는 더 많고 피해액도 상당합니다.
Halo. Baru-baru ini saya mengalami kejadian yang benar-benar tidak terduga di Indonesia, dan dengan harapan agar rekan-rekan Korea lainnya atau mereka yang tinggal di Cikarang tidak mengalami kerugian seperti saya, saya membagikan cerita ini.
Seseorang yang saya perlakukan dengan sungguh-sungguh sambil bahkan mempertimbangkan pernikahan, ternyata adalah seorang yang secara kebiasaan mendekati pria Korea untuk mendapatkan keuntungan finansial. Saya akan berbagi metode dan karakteristik yang saya alami secara langsung, jadi jika ada di antara Anda yang bertemu dengan wanita seperti ini, saya berharap Anda mempertimbangkannya kembali dengan hati-hati.
⚠️ Karakteristik Wanita yang Harus Diwaspadai
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Aplikasi yang digunakan: Tinder (Fr***sca), Bumble, Instagram (hua_26_0*) dll (menampilkan pakaian tradisional Tiongkok di profil)
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Area aktivitas: Sering muncul terutama di AEON Mall Cikarang atau Lippo Mall (Lily diamond).
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Identitas: Pada awal 20-an (05.01.26), dia memperkenalkan diri sebagai sekretaris dari kepala perusahaan industri/pabrik B* . (Jika perusahaan melindunginya, lalu mengapa??)
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Penampilan/Gaya: Suka mengenakan gaya pakaian pesta yang meriah yang dijual di mal belanja online Korea (seperti Kam*yori dll), dan katanya mengikuti pelajaran pemrograman secara online.
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Kendaraan/Tempat tinggal: Berkendara dengan Toyota Rush berwarna putih (plat nomor seri 14**), dan tinggal di apartemen Westwood Suites Cikarang. (Juga menyebutkan hubungan keluarga dengan ayah Tiongkok dan ibu Indonesia untuk membangkitkan simpati.)
❗ Metode 'Menyamar sebagai Calon Pengantin' yang Harus Diwaspadai
Saat kontak pertama, dia tidak membicarakan uang sama sekali. Dia berpura-pura ingin menikah dengan serius untuk sepenuhnya menenangkan hati Anda. Tetapi ketika bertemu langsung, dia secara bertahap menunjukkan wajah sebenarnya.
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Mendorong pengeluaran awal: Sejak pertemuan pertama, dia menyuruh Anda berbelanja dengan jumlah ratusan ribu won dengan alasan hadiah untuk ibu, atau secara halus meminta pakaian mahal dan kalung platinum dll.
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Permintaan untuk hadiah pernikahan senilai puluhan juta won: Setelah menciptakan suasana pertemuan keluarga, dia dengan kuat mendesak Anda untuk membeli cincin dan kalung mahal senilai lebih dari puluhan juta won sebagai bukti janji pernikahan.
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Menghilang dengan cara yang mengecewakan: Setelah mendapatkan hadiah pernikahan, dia tiba-tiba menuntut uang yang tidak masuk akal seperti biaya cat renovasi rumah dan mulai berdebat. Kemudian dia menghilang dengan alasan pergi ke kamar mandi di mal belanja atau tempat serupa, dan meninggalkan hanya satu pesan yang mengatakan 'Saya meninggalkan barang di hotel, pergilah mencarinya', lalu lenyap. Ketika Anda kemudian memeriksanya, dia telah mengambil hanya hadiah pernikahan yang paling mahal.
Setelah mendengar dari orang-orang Korea lokal, saya belajar bahwa dia adalah pelaku kejahatan berulang yang telah menggunakan metode yang sama terhadap beberapa pria Korea dan Tiongkok. Saya sendiri hampir saja kehilangan uang lebih dari puluhan juta won begitu saja.
Jangan berpikir 'Itu tidak akan terjadi pada saya' atau 'Orang ini terlihat baik, jadi seharusnya tidak apa-apa'. Bahkan jika tidak ada permintaan uang dalam percakapan online, jika dia menuntut hadiah pernikahan atau uang yang tidak masuk akal saat bertemu, itu pasti 100%. Saya berharap cerita saya benar-benar membantu seseorang dan mencegah terjadinya korban kedua dan ketiga.
Jika merasa keberatan, silakan datang dan jelaskan sendiri.
Saya adalah orang yang melakukan upacara pertunangan pada 6 Februari. Saya tidak tahu apakah keluarganya semuanya tahu tentang penipuan ini dan membantu di depan keluarga kedua belah pihak atau tidak
Tampaknya pelaku masih bertemu dengan korban lain sekarang, jadi saya berharap orang-orang Korea di sekitar Cikarang berhati-hati agar tidak ada korban lain yang terjadi.
Ada lebih banyak cerita yang saya alami dan kerugian finansialnya juga signifikan.
Hello. I recently experienced something truly unbelievable in Indonesia, and I'm posting this with the hope that other Korean people and those living in Cikkarang won't suffer the same damage as I did.
The person I was sincere with, even thinking about marriage, turned out to be someone who habitually approached Korean men to gain financial benefits. I will share the methods and characteristics I personally experienced, and if anyone out there is meeting a woman like this, I hope you'll think it over carefully once more.
⚠️ Characteristics to Beware of This Woman
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Apps used: Tinder (Fr***sca), Bumble, Instagram (hua_26_0*), etc. (wearing traditional Chinese clothing in profile)
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Active areas: Frequently appears mainly at Cikkarang AEON Mall or Lippo Mall (Lily diamond).
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Identity: In her early 20s (05.01.26), she introduces herself as secretary of Bu* Industry (factory) chairman. (She says the company protects her—why??)
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Appearance/Style: She enjoys wearing flashy formal dress styles sold at Korean online shopping malls (kkamkka*ori, etc.), and she says she takes programming classes online.
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Vehicle/Residence: She drives a white Toyota Rush (license plate 14** series) and lives in Cikkarang Westwood Suites apartment. (She mentions family relationships with a Chinese father and Indonesian mother to evoke sympathy.)
❗ 'Marriage Pretense' Methods to Be Careful About
When she first contacts you, she doesn't mention money at all. She acts as if she genuinely wants to get married, completely reassuring people. However, when you actually meet, she gradually shows her true colors.
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Initial spending inducement: From the first meeting, she makes you buy groceries worth hundreds of thousands of won claiming they're gifts for her mother, or subtly demands expensive clothes and platinum necklaces.
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Demand for millions of won in engagement gifts: After creating an atmosphere for a formal meeting, she strongly pressures you to buy expensive rings and necklaces worth over 10 million won, claiming they are tokens of a marriage promise.
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Absurd disappearance: After getting the engagement gifts, she suddenly demands ridiculous money like home repair paint costs and starts fights. Then she disappears from a shopping mall claiming she's going to the bathroom, leaving only a message saying "I left my luggage at the hotel, go pick it up," and vanishes. Later, when you check, you find that only the most expensive gifts have been taken.
According to locals in the area, she is a habitual offender who has used the same methods against multiple Korean and Chinese men. I almost lost over 10 million won myself.
Don't think "It won't happen to me" or "This person looks kind, so it should be fine." Even if there are no money demands in online conversations, if she demands unreasonable engagement gifts or money when you meet, it's 100%. I hope my story helps someone and that there are no second or third victims.
If you feel wronged in any way, come forward and explain yourself.
I am the person who had an engagement ceremony on February 6th. I don't know whether the entire other family helped while knowing about this fraud in front of both families
The perpetrator seems to be meeting other victims even now, so I hope Korean residents around Cikkarang will be careful so that there are no more victims.
I have more stories I experienced, and the damage is quite substantial.
