We already know.
That yelling at and nagging a child doesn't really change anything.
What's really needed is value education, which instills values.
Go on a date with your spouse for the sake of your child
The key here is that both parents need to do it together.
Share the problems your child is having with each other, as seen by the father and the mother.
Often, one person will notice something the other missed.
My spouse and I meet at a cafe near the cultural center while our child is taking classes and discuss these matters.
And we record the content of our conversation.
Memories fade and become distorted, but records remain accurate.
Sometimes, a marital fight is necessary
You and your spouse may have different opinions on the same issue.
What the father considers a problem, the mother may not, or they may interpret the same behavior completely differently.
If opinions differ, come to an agreement now.
Fight if necessary.
It's a hundred times better than fighting in front of your child later without resolving the issue.
Through this process, parents will come to understand their child more comprehensively and deeply.
And they will be able to discipline them with a consistent voice.
Your marital relationship will also improve
If you only worry alone, the problem seems to get bigger and bigger, and complaints about your spouse just pile up.
'Why doesn't that person know this?', 'It seems like I'm the only one worrying' - thoughts like these create distance.
But it's different when you worry together.
If you put your heads together and look for solutions, not only will better answers come up,
but you'll also be able to confirm how much you each love your child and how much you want to be good parents.
The moment you feel your spouse's sincerity, gratitude arises and the relationship between you becomes stronger.
The Best Gift for Your Child
I sincerely suggest this.
Go on a date with your spouse for the sake of your child.
Movies or good restaurants are nice, but try having a time to seriously talk about your child over a cup of coffee.
This is the greatest gift you can give your child.
