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How do you raise a 27-month-old?

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I am currently raising a 27-month-old son...


My first child...  There is no one here, no help, and my husband works from 7 am to midnight, so


'Exclusive' childcare...^^ I'm in charge.


What I decided when I came here was,


Since I will be returning to work soon after giving birth and my husband is with me in Indonesia,


I resolved to do childcare alone as much as possible.


(When my son was 22 months old, people around me said things like "That's why he doesn't see his mother" and gaslighted me in every way.)


But.... It's really hard...^^


Since he is a boy, I have to let him expend his energy. All I can do with him is


Take a walk in the mall and buy him toy cars, go to a kids' cafe, etc.


There are toy stores on every floor, so he lies down every time he sees a store,


I barely buy anything, and I'm having a hard time. If I even try to go into a coffee shop for a cup of coffee, he asks "Why did we come to the coffee shop?"


He lies down and cries and throws things. His personality is...


I thought my son was really innocent and pure.


Every time I go into a store in the mall, I feel like people are looking at me like "He's here again..." ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ


I often come here to ask for good places to take my child, but


I don't even have the courage to go outside.


Is this normal at this age? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ


I was going to hire a nanny in January because it was so hard in December, but I decided to send him to daycare from February,


So I have to endure until January... ㅋㅋㅋ


Every day is a struggle. ㅋㅋㅋㅋ




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  • (182.2.***.***)

    [KR] 공감🫢 아마.. 남아맘들은 이해할듯요.. 저도 놀릴려고 나가요~ 집에선 안됩니다...😅😁 락스타나 방문수업도 고려해보세요~

    [EN] I relate 🫢 Maybe... moms of boys would understand... I also go out to let them play~ It doesn't work at home... 😅😁 Consider Rock Star classes or home lessons too~

    [ID] Empati🫢 Mungkin.. ibu-ibu dengan anak laki-laki pasti mengerti.. Saya juga keluar untuk bermain~ Di rumah tidak bisa...😅😁 Coba pertimbangkan rockstar atau les privat juga~

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    [KR] 저희 막내가 30개월입니다. 거의 비슷한 시기네요. 막내라서 그런지 천방지축이죠... 아내가 혼자 감당하기에 쉽지 않은 성격이기도 합니다. 저희집은 애들한테 제가 좀 엄하게 하는 편이에요. 요즘 아이들 보면서 느끼는 것이지만... 세상에 무서운 사람이 한사람 정도는 있어야 하지 않나 싶습니다. 그게 엄마가 되었든 아빠가 되었든.... 그래서 제가 악역을 맡다보니 아이들은 제 눈치를 보는 경향이 있기는 하지만 포기라는 것을 배우고 있기도 합니다. 어린이집을 보내보세요. 수영장도 가시고요.... 저희는 그렇게 하니까... 힘이 빠져서 그런지... 한결 나아지더라구요. 힘내세요.... 누가 그러더군요.... 힘이 안나는데 어떻게 힘을 내냐고... 이런말도 있잖아요. "그또한 지나가리..."

    [EN] Our youngest is 30 months old. It's around the same age. Since he's the youngest, he's quite boisterous... My wife finds his personality challenging to handle on her own. At home, I tend to be fairly strict with the kids. Watching children these days, I think... shouldn't there be at least one scary person in the world? Whether as a mom or dad... So since I'm playing the bad guy, the kids tend to watch my expression, but they're also learning what giving up means. Try sending them to daycare. And take them to the swimming pool too.... Since we do that... maybe because we're exhausted... things improved considerably. Keep your strength up.... Someone once told me... how do you keep your strength when you don't have any strength left... There's also this saying: "This too shall pass..."

    [ID] Anak bungsu kami berusia 30 bulan. Hampir bersamaan ya. Karena dia anak bungsu, karakternya agak liar... dan tidak mudah bagi istri saya untuk menanganinya sendirian. Di rumah kami, saya cukup ketat dengan anak-anak. Dari mengamati anak-anak belakangan ini, saya merasa mungkin perlu ada seseorang yang ditakuti di dunia ini. Entah itu ibu atau ayah.... Karena saya mengambil peran sebagai "penjahat", anak-anak cenderung memperhatikan ekspresi saya, tetapi di sisi lain mereka juga belajar untuk tidak menyerah. Cobalah sekolahkan mereka ke taman kanak-kanak. Dan juga ajak mereka berenang.... Kami melakukannya seperti itu... entah karena mereka jadi lelah... tetapi itu jauh lebih baik. Tetap semangat.... Ada yang pernah bilang.... bagaimana caranya semangat kalau kamu tidak punya tenaga.... Ada juga ungkapan seperti ini. "Ini juga akan berlalu..."

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    [KR] 저는 육아로 힘들어 죽겠는데, 저의 교육 방식과 남편의 교육 방식 때문에 싸우기까지 해요. (대환장파티죠) 남편은 좀 엄하게 하거든요. 근데 집에 무서운 사람 한 명은 있는 게 맞는 것 같아요. 저도 늦둥이라 너무 귀하고 이뻐서 책에서 보듯이 "안 돼요, 안 돼요"로 타이르는데, 정말 안 되더라고요. 😂 육아는 어렵고 답도 없는 것 같아요... 에효.

    [EN] I'm dying from how hard parenting is, and we even fight over our different parenting styles. (It's absolute chaos, right?) My husband tends to be stricter. But it does seem like having one scary person in the house is the right way. Since I was also a late child and am so precious and pretty, I try to discipline the way you see in books with "no, no, you can't do that," but it really doesn't work. 😂 Parenting is difficult and seems to have no right answers... sigh.

    [ID] Saya sangat kelelahan dengan parenting, dan kami bahkan berdebat karena perbedaan cara mendidik antara saya dan suami. (Benar-benar kacau) Suami saya cukup ketat dalam mendidik. Tapi sepertinya memang perlu ada satu orang yang tegas di rumah. Karena saya juga anak bungsu yang sangat disayangi dan dicintai, saya menasihati seperti terlihat di buku-buku dengan "tidak boleh, tidak boleh", tapi ternyata sama sekali tidak berhasil. 😂 Parenting itu sulit dan seperti tidak ada jawabannya... Ahhh...

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  • (182.2.***.***)

    [KR] 27개월이면 가장 힘들때 같아요. 조금만 더 힘내세요. 엄마의 감정선도 육아에선 너무 중요한거 같아요.

    [EN] 27 months seems like the hardest time. Please hang in there a little longer. A mother's emotional state also seems really important in childcare.

    [ID] Usia 27 bulan memang terasa seperti masa paling sulit. Tetap kuat sedikit lebih lama lagi. Kondisi emosional ibu juga sangat penting dalam pengasuhan anak, sepertinya.

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